I was chatting to a close male friend yesterday and he said it was either feast or famine with me. He was talking about my sex life.
I said it was like buses none for ages and then they all come along at once and his response was:
"The problem is your bus is always a number 69!" Funny.
Anyway i consider myself very lucky as I have lots of mainly male friends that I can confide in and discuss my sex life with both frankly and explicitly so I never have to bottle things up.
I have a great support system and plenty of advice on tap.
Most of them think my unconventional sex life is pure entertainment and generally can't wait for the next instalment.
Ok so it's been a while since I've been blogging so I thought I would come and do an update and endeavour to post on here more regularly.
So what's been happening?
Mmm, the married man that i fell in love with??
Ermm, i'm still in love with him and he's still married..
We still see eachother as regularly as possiblewhich is not very often at all really (monthly), and it's heartache all round. Lots of battling with emotions on both sides.
So why am i still seeing him i hear you cry. Because i love him, i love being with him and he is everything i want in a man (apart from being unavailable).
We have mutual pleasure and that's it. I'm guessing one of us will get fed up or be strong enough to walk away at some point.
How do i cope with it? I see other men so i am not focussed on him and how painful it is not to be with him when i want to be. I have my cake and eat it just like he does.
Hey i'm just trying to be the realistic woman as opposed to the dumb one who waits for something that's never going to happen.
So what else?
Well... the last post A fantasy fulfilled... is all absolutely true. Shocked? No one's forcing you to read it.
And how did that come about?
Well being sexually submissive I haven't really had any kind of real outlet for my deepest and true sexual desires for several years since my first (and only) Dom (Dominant Master) moved overseas.
Personally I dont feel that my escort work is an appropriate place for me to explore my submissive desires mainly because I need a constant and committed male Dom to play with.
Its such a deep emotional relationship that it's not really something you just play at. You can but its not the same.
Apart from that most of my clients are attracted to me because I am sexually confident (that's not to say that a submissive isn't, just that she looks to her sexual partner for direction in order to fully express it) and wouldn't really know how to deal with me as a sub and therefore we would all be left unsatisfied which will not do.
I've messed about with boyfriends with various aspects of submissiveness but they could never 'get it' like a Dom does. And much as I love sex (of course) and have a fantastic sex life with clients as well as boyfriends it's that ability to be taken to the edge that really does it for me.
I will explain what the whole being submissive thing is all about (at least to me) another time but suffice to say I decided I could no longer supress my feelings any longer so I sought out a new sexual partner.
Online swinging/dating site. High ratio of men to women the odds are you WILL get a hell of a lot of replies if you are a single female. I posted my ad and a few saucy pics and...
I got about 170 replies (it took me bloody ages but i went through them all one by one).
However ladies, we are definitely talking quantity not quality
Most were pricks (quite literally). I mean seriously does someone really think that sending a picture of his erect cock and a dumb note saying hi gorgeous/sexy/darling/whatshername I think you're lovely, i would like to meet you and give you a real good rogering lets get together hope you get in touch soon darling i love to lick pussy for hours.... is going to attract a woman? Well maybe, but definitely not this woman.
Ok so about 150 of the 170 were deleted either for the above reason or because they were just plain unoriginal, thick, boring, fat, ugly, had just sent me a cut and paste message to me that didn't even include my name (or worse had the name of the last person they sent it to intact or because they simply had nothing much to offer (ok they are looking for sex not a wife, but i tend to like a bit of personality and intelligence with my sex).
The other 20 was shortlisted to a grand total of 2.
Number 2 I am meeting tomorrow hopefully for an afternoon of pleasure just for the hell of it. He's 25 if I remember rightly and i'm looking forward to some young flesh. Actually he called me today and sounded lovely and very confident.
The first successful candidate (hallelujah!) was Mr Dominant who facilitated the wonderful encounter I had last night. He's a pervert, i'm a pervert, perfect.
I wont repeat his message here as I dont have his permission but in it he was intelligent, intriguing, interesting, confident and very tempting. He said all the right things and ticked all the right boxes.
We texted, emailed, talked on the phone, met up and hit it off. And here we are at the start of a beautiful relationship.
I use the term relationship loosely here. We are not boyfriend or girlfriend. We are lovers, we play, we have fantasies which fit.
Anyway I have been told by other male friend and confidante that i am a bad bad bad girl!
Ladies you have no reason not to be having sex (that's assuming you want it). Just get yourself on the internet on any number of dating, swinging, friendship and social networking sites. If youwant to know where I put my ad just ask. :-)
A little advice though if you don't want to waste loads of time. Know exactly what (who) you are looking for, be focussed be ruthless and above all be careful and sensible.
Make sure someone knows exactly where you are going and who with. End of lecture.
So what about business?
Well, I am meeting a new sugar daddy in London. Staying overnight with him in 5 star hotel (of course and he is on probation). Not quite sure what to make of him but will certainly know after spending the night with him.
Remember I said before I was going to be choosy about who I worked with. High calibre only need apply.
You must be very rich, very generous, very confident, a gentleman, a generous and experienced lover, bright, sucessful (or ambitious) intelligent, interesting, imaginative and fun to be with.
Confused? I'm not. I might be a whore/kept woman or whatever you wanna call me, but i'm very particular about who i spend my time with, and since i only see regular clients now and not one off's that's my criteria and it works VERY nicely thank you very much.
There's loads more including a move back to the smoke but you'll have to wait till another time for that.
Hope you're having fun, I am.
I said it was like buses none for ages and then they all come along at once and his response was:
"The problem is your bus is always a number 69!" Funny.
Anyway i consider myself very lucky as I have lots of mainly male friends that I can confide in and discuss my sex life with both frankly and explicitly so I never have to bottle things up.
I have a great support system and plenty of advice on tap.
Most of them think my unconventional sex life is pure entertainment and generally can't wait for the next instalment.
Ok so it's been a while since I've been blogging so I thought I would come and do an update and endeavour to post on here more regularly.
So what's been happening?
Mmm, the married man that i fell in love with??
Ermm, i'm still in love with him and he's still married..
We still see eachother as regularly as possiblewhich is not very often at all really (monthly), and it's heartache all round. Lots of battling with emotions on both sides.
So why am i still seeing him i hear you cry. Because i love him, i love being with him and he is everything i want in a man (apart from being unavailable).
We have mutual pleasure and that's it. I'm guessing one of us will get fed up or be strong enough to walk away at some point.
How do i cope with it? I see other men so i am not focussed on him and how painful it is not to be with him when i want to be. I have my cake and eat it just like he does.
Hey i'm just trying to be the realistic woman as opposed to the dumb one who waits for something that's never going to happen.
So what else?
Well... the last post A fantasy fulfilled... is all absolutely true. Shocked? No one's forcing you to read it.
And how did that come about?
Well being sexually submissive I haven't really had any kind of real outlet for my deepest and true sexual desires for several years since my first (and only) Dom (Dominant Master) moved overseas.
Personally I dont feel that my escort work is an appropriate place for me to explore my submissive desires mainly because I need a constant and committed male Dom to play with.
Its such a deep emotional relationship that it's not really something you just play at. You can but its not the same.
Apart from that most of my clients are attracted to me because I am sexually confident (that's not to say that a submissive isn't, just that she looks to her sexual partner for direction in order to fully express it) and wouldn't really know how to deal with me as a sub and therefore we would all be left unsatisfied which will not do.
I've messed about with boyfriends with various aspects of submissiveness but they could never 'get it' like a Dom does. And much as I love sex (of course) and have a fantastic sex life with clients as well as boyfriends it's that ability to be taken to the edge that really does it for me.
I will explain what the whole being submissive thing is all about (at least to me) another time but suffice to say I decided I could no longer supress my feelings any longer so I sought out a new sexual partner.
Online swinging/dating site. High ratio of men to women the odds are you WILL get a hell of a lot of replies if you are a single female. I posted my ad and a few saucy pics and...
I got about 170 replies (it took me bloody ages but i went through them all one by one).
However ladies, we are definitely talking quantity not quality
Most were pricks (quite literally). I mean seriously does someone really think that sending a picture of his erect cock and a dumb note saying hi gorgeous/sexy/darling/whatshername I think you're lovely, i would like to meet you and give you a real good rogering lets get together hope you get in touch soon darling i love to lick pussy for hours.... is going to attract a woman? Well maybe, but definitely not this woman.
Ok so about 150 of the 170 were deleted either for the above reason or because they were just plain unoriginal, thick, boring, fat, ugly, had just sent me a cut and paste message to me that didn't even include my name (or worse had the name of the last person they sent it to intact or because they simply had nothing much to offer (ok they are looking for sex not a wife, but i tend to like a bit of personality and intelligence with my sex).
The other 20 was shortlisted to a grand total of 2.
Number 2 I am meeting tomorrow hopefully for an afternoon of pleasure just for the hell of it. He's 25 if I remember rightly and i'm looking forward to some young flesh. Actually he called me today and sounded lovely and very confident.
The first successful candidate (hallelujah!) was Mr Dominant who facilitated the wonderful encounter I had last night. He's a pervert, i'm a pervert, perfect.
I wont repeat his message here as I dont have his permission but in it he was intelligent, intriguing, interesting, confident and very tempting. He said all the right things and ticked all the right boxes.
We texted, emailed, talked on the phone, met up and hit it off. And here we are at the start of a beautiful relationship.
I use the term relationship loosely here. We are not boyfriend or girlfriend. We are lovers, we play, we have fantasies which fit.
Anyway I have been told by other male friend and confidante that i am a bad bad bad girl!
Ladies you have no reason not to be having sex (that's assuming you want it). Just get yourself on the internet on any number of dating, swinging, friendship and social networking sites. If youwant to know where I put my ad just ask. :-)
A little advice though if you don't want to waste loads of time. Know exactly what (who) you are looking for, be focussed be ruthless and above all be careful and sensible.
Make sure someone knows exactly where you are going and who with. End of lecture.
So what about business?
Well, I am meeting a new sugar daddy in London. Staying overnight with him in 5 star hotel (of course and he is on probation). Not quite sure what to make of him but will certainly know after spending the night with him.
Remember I said before I was going to be choosy about who I worked with. High calibre only need apply.
You must be very rich, very generous, very confident, a gentleman, a generous and experienced lover, bright, sucessful (or ambitious) intelligent, interesting, imaginative and fun to be with.
Confused? I'm not. I might be a whore/kept woman or whatever you wanna call me, but i'm very particular about who i spend my time with, and since i only see regular clients now and not one off's that's my criteria and it works VERY nicely thank you very much.
There's loads more including a move back to the smoke but you'll have to wait till another time for that.
Hope you're having fun, I am.
UKEscortGirl
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